Connection is what we all desire. Feeling seen, known, met, and deeply bonded with another person is what life is all about.
Love, undoubtedly, is sweetest experience there is.
And yet, many of us struggle with attracting great love into our lives. We want it so badly, yet it feels so far away.
Why is it finding love so hard? The answer is simple: We’re not being love, so it can’t show up in front of us.
We’re creating our realities from the inside-out. Your relationships mirror back to you how you feel about yourself, what you believe about relationships, and how much love you’re embodying in your life.
Because of this, when you become the embodiment of love, love has no choice but to appear in front of you in all forms (including an incredible partnership).
Below are 8 steps that will transform your internal …
As my connection deepens with my man, I can’t help but reflect on how far I’ve come in romantic love.
It wasn’t long ago that I experienced a ton of unease in relationships. I had a pattern of attracting men who couldn’t show up for me… I felt a deep longing to be seen, cherished and loved.
As painful as that time was, looking back now I wouldn’t change a thing. Because being unfulfilled in relationships helped me get very clear about the type of man I wanted to be with, and the discomfort actually made me very passionate about manifesting this new type of love.
Today, I’m in a completely different situation…
I’m engaged to an incredible man! Not only do I feel secure, beautiful, fulfilled, and vibrant while deepening into a relationship with him, but I also chose someone who wants nothing more than to show-up for …
We are approaching a period of time when relationships are going through a major redesign. The current paradigm isn’t working. People are unsatisfied in love; people don’t know how to make relationships work.
And, believe it or not, this isn’t a bad thing. Because when systems break-down, that’s when they change. I believe that’s what’s happening in the area of intimate partnership. The break-down is forcing us to move towards conscious love.
So what exactly is a conscious relationship? It’s a romantic relationship that has a purpose, and that purpose is growth.
Individual growth. Growth as a couple. Growth that makes the world a better place.
As of now, most people get into relationships to satisfy their own personal needs. This might work for a few years, but eventually the relationship fails us, and we end up unsatisfied as a result.
But when two people come together with the intention …
I can’t tell you how many men and women have asked me throughout the years about this complex dynamic in relationships:
“How do I STOP attracting people I’m not attracted to, and start attracting people I AM attracted to?”
Huge topic. Slightly controversial. But so important to understand.
In the video below, I’ll tell you the exact steps I took to overcome the pattern of attracting men I was NOT attracted to (sounds bad, I know… but it happens to all of us), and start attracting the ones I was. Follow the steps I discuss in the video, and you’ll overcome this pattern, too. (Click below to watch the video.)
Now I’d love to hear from you! In the comments below, please tell us about your experience with attracting people you’re not interested in, and what you’re going to do to break the pattern. I look forward to hearing from …