How to Leave a Relationship Gracefully

Have you decided to end your relationship and now you need to know how to separate with as much love, grace, and closure as you possibly can?

Beautiful. In this video, I’ll show you how. Watch below.

 

 

Please leave a comment below telling us how you’re going to use what you learned to separate with love and grace. I look forward to hearing from you.

Love,

Shelly

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jane

Thank you, that was perfect timing, I am on a break from someone, but think this time it may be a forever break and it would be great to end it gracefully and to be grateful for everything I have learnt and accept we just want different things.

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Shelly Bullard

Yes. That’s beautiful, Jane. Thank you for sharing. Love to you during this time. xo

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Robin

Hi Shelly, I discovered your page about a week ago and you’ve honestly helped me so much already to identify my triggers and limiting beliefs. Thank you so much.
I am so lost right now and have tried to end my relationship recently and now I’m thinking of going back because I still care for him. I feel Though like he is not aligned with my truth and who I want to be, we are so different on every level and it hasn’t felt right from the beginning, but I don’t know if I’m being called to leave or if I just need to be more accepting and if I just worked on my triggers that maybe things would get better. I care for him but he’s not spiritual in any way and I’m not sure me fixing my triggers is enough to save us when he has abandonment and anger issues and not much interest in addressing them, and he now needs 100% assurance from me that I won’t leave again. Very difficult when I am the distancer in our persuer distancer relationship.
Can I truly live in my truth if I feel my partner is not aligned with it?
Oh life!

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Shelly Bullard

Hi Robin, I’m so happy this blog has helped you so much already! Hmmm… yes, I was feeling-into your situation as I was reading what you wrote and I noticed the overwhelm and confusion. My best advice is no decision should be made until YOU feel centered/not overwhelmed. Maybe take some time to be with yourself, center, find yourself and then you will be guided from that place of Inner Peace. Lots of love xo

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Robin

Hi Shelly,
Thanks so much for your response. I took your advice and took some time alone to reflect. I realised that my emotions and actions were being driven by this huge guilt I’m holding, for misleading him and not being truthful about my feelings.
When I am centred and still and ‘feeling’ instead of ‘thinking’, I have this aching feeling to get out, like I can’t truly be myself until I’m free again.
I decided to end the relationship.
I still feel so much guilt, but I am trying to manage it with meditation and journaling.
Thanks again.
Robin.

P.S I see you’re heading to Europe soon, is Switzerland on your agenda? Many people overlook it but it is such an incredibly beautiful place, the mountains, lakes, and cities are just so breathtakingly beautiful.
I’m so jealous I love Europe <3

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Shelly Bullard

Beautiful. Thank you for sharing your process. Stay with yourself through that meditation and journaling. You will move through.

Switzerland is a maybe for me! We’ll see where my heart takes me.

Lots of love,
Shelly

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