3 Practices to Attract a Devoted Partner to You
As my connection deepens with my man, I can’t help but reflect on how far I’ve come in romantic love.
It wasn’t long ago that I experienced a ton of unease in relationships.
I had a pattern of attracting men who couldn’t show up for me... I felt a deep longing to be seen, cherished and loved.
As painful as that time was, looking back now I wouldn’t change a thing. Because being unfulfilled in relationships helped me get very clear about the type of man I wanted to be with, and the discomfort actually made me very passionate about manifesting this new type of love.
Today, I’m in a completely different situation...
I'm with an incredible man! Not only do I feel secure, beautiful, fulfilled, and vibrant while deepening into a relationship with him, but I also chose someone who wants nothing more than to show-up for me and shower me with his love.
So how did I go from feeling so unsatisfied in relationships to attracting such a devoted partner?
That’s what this article is about.
By implementing the 3 practices below, you’ll heal your wounds in romantic love and put yourself on the path to attracting the type of relationship you've always wanted.
1. Practice radical self-love.
You’ve heard it before and you'll hear it again: Self-love is the key to attracting an amazing relationship (as I teach in-depth in my course Manifest Your Love - click here to learn more).
The reason self-love is so important is simple... we attract people who treat us how we treat ourselves.
Most of us carry hidden beliefs that we’re not worthy or good enough to be deeply loved. From these ingrained beliefs, we create relationships that “prove” that this is true - people and circumstances that make us feel unworthy and "not good enough."
These issues in relationships ingrain our limiting beliefs further, and the cycle of unsatisfying romantic love continues...
The way to end this cycle is by valuing yourself in the deepest way possible.
Listening to your needs and desires, honoring your feelings, getting to know yourself… taking all the subtle steps that you’d want a very-attuned partner to take with you.
By caring for yourself in the way you want someone else to, you send an energetic message to the Universe that attracts that a matching person into your life.
In other words, you literally become a magnet for really good love.
2. Believe in something you haven't experienced before.
I often hear the question, “How can I believe in a relationship that I’ve never had before?” My answer is this: imagination, deep knowing, and faith.
We all have the ability to imagine realities that don’t exist yet. In fact, we each have the ability to KNOW that potentials in life, love, and relationships are true. This "knowing" is how progress is made in our world.
As we all know, “I have a dream…” is very powerful statement. When you stand in your dream, things that were once impossible suddenly become a reality. The same holds true in romantic love.
To create your dream in love, ask yourself questions like this:
- How do I want to feel in a relationship?
- What is it like to be loved by another person?
Then feel into your answers. Get comfortable with them. In doing so, you’re creating a new relationship-reality from the inside-out. This is exactly how it worked for me…
Before I experienced what it was like to be cherished by a man, I could imagine what it would be like. I let myself get comfortable with that internal-vision, knowing that it would eventually come true.
The more certain I became, the closer the relationship got. Until one day, he was standing right in front of me (very certain that I was the woman for him!).
Intuitively tune-in to the potential of a new type of relationship. All things are possible, especially when it comes to love.
3. Make yourself available for love.
A year and a half ago, I started to fall in love with an incredible, devoted man. But at the time, the thought of being in a relationship scared the hell out of me.
So I fled, felt a ton of sadness as a result, and fortunately, learned my lesson: An amazing man came into my life but fear got the best of me. I was not being available for love.
Being available for love has nothing to do with knowing the future or making a commitment. It’s simply about trusting that there’s a reason certain people show up on our paths. When you give those special people a chance, you open yourself up to a whole new kind of love.
Most of us think we’re available for love, but we’re really not. We’re scared! And so the moment a person comes into our lives, we back away, doubt everything, and do a ton of other things that sabotage the experience and connection.
To shift this pattern, start by taking the pressure off! Life is an experiment, and so is a relationship.
When you’re attracted to someone, approach it with an open mind and heart. You don’t have to make a lifelong commitment in a day! Just be available for the ride and see where it goes.
To help with this process, you can repeat mantras such as:
- I’m willing to see who this person is
- I’m willing to show up the best I can
- I’m willing to see where this goes
- I’m willing to be here now
What you’ll find when you become available for love is that you’ll dive deeper into relationships than you ever have before.
This doesn’t mean you won’t be scared (because sometimes I am) and it doesn’t mean you don’t have doubts (I can have those, too).
It just means you become willing to give it all you got, just for today. The more you show up for love, the more it will show up for you.
I want you to remember that love is your very nature - it’s what you’re here to do.
By implementing the practices above, you’ll literally become an embodiment of love. And when that happens, love (in all forms) has no other choice but to be potently attracted to you.
Please leave a comment below telling us how you’re going to become the embodiment of love. I look forward to hearing from you!