The Secret to Unlimited Happiness in Your Relationships

The secret to feeling unlimited happiness in your relationship is learning this simple yet radical practice:

It’s not your partner’s job to “give” you anything. In fact, when you let go of trying to “get” from him or her, not only will you feel incredibly happy in your relationship, but your partner will feel more inspired to give to you naturally. 

Why this this true? Well, trying to “get” anything from another person is just bad news. Let’s start with talking about why that is:

Expectations for someone to give you something (especially a feeling-state) leads to dependency in relationships. When you feel like its another person’s job to fill you up, it automatically means you’re not filling-up enough on your own. It’s very easy for us to project our needs onto other people and expect them to fulfill them. This is not what a relationship is for! If you …

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The Secret to Finding “The One”

We’re all on a mission to find “The One.”

We long to be united with the perfect partner who makes us feel enlightened, happy, and whole from the inside-out.

Today I have some good news for you. That person exists. And this is the biggest secret about finding him or her…

You’re it.

Yes… I said you.

You are the person that you find completion with.

You are the person that you find passion, love, and beauty with.

You are The One.

And when you finally realize this, you’ll align yourself to finding the most amazing relationship with another person, too.

Let me explain why…

Many of us are seeking “The One” because we feel like something’s missing in our lives. There’s a void, a sense of incompletion, a hole.

The logical way we deal with this void is by looking for the perfect fit “out there.” We may …

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How to Heal So You Can Find the Right Love

Manifesting isn’t magic or voodoo. The concept actually makes a lot of practical sense: When you believe something’s going to happen, and you focus your energy on it happening, it does. 

Viola! Manifesting. 

So, if manifesting is this simplistic, how come it’s difficult for us to accomplish, especially when it comes to relationships?

Because our limiting beliefs get in the way of us creating the love we want.

A limiting belief is any internal message that tells you you can’t have the love you want. These beliefs come in many forms, and they’re sneaky – so sometimes you don’t even know you have them!

Common limiting beliefs that many of us carry are messages like this:

“I don’t feel good enough,” or

“All men are unavailable,” or

“I don’t see any good relationships out there, so how would I create one?”

If you resonate with any of the statements above, …

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Why We’re Attracted to People Who Are Wrong For Us

I’m asked this question all the time: “Why am I attracted to people who are ‘wrong’ for me?” And the answer is quite simple, actually:

Because your wounded self is doing the attracting.

Now, I know the term “wounded self” can sound a little intense, so let me explain what it is. We all have two selves – the “little self” (or the wounded self, the ego) and the “Spiritual Self” (the higher self, adult self, soul).

The wounded self is the part of you that feels incomplete. It’s questions your worth and value; it doesn’t feel whole. My wounded self is the “little me” who wonders if I’m truly lovable. It’s the part of us that feels flawed in some way.

On the other hand, we also have a Spiritual Self. This is your higher self, your soul. It’s the part of you that’s connected to love, …

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3 Beliefs that Will Attract the Love of Your Life

What if I told you your beliefs set the foundation for what you’ll create in relationships?

There was a time when I didn’t know this, and the state of my relationships was proof that I was in the dark.

I used to struggle in romantic relationships – trying to get my needs met, trying not to get hurt! But the same patterns kept happening over and over again. No matter what, I’d end-up feeling disempowered and disheartened; like I could never get the love I wanted.

This experience went on for years until finally, during a particularly difficult time in my life, I had an insight about why my relationships weren’t working. The insight was:

Relationships unfold based on your beliefs about yourself. Change what’s happening inside of you, and your relationships will change, too.

Was it possible that my relationships were dysfunctional because of what I believed about myself

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