4 Truths About a Sacred Relationship

A sacred relationship is a relationship in which we are inspired to see the divine in another person. To experience oneness through the union of two.

We become ready for this sacred relationship at a very particular time in our lives – a time when we awaken to the sacredness within ourselves.

When you come to realize that you’re not just a body – that you are, in fact, the essence of love and truth – a deep desire to know yourself as love, and to experience love in your relationships, comes forth. And so, the desire for a sacred relationship is born.

Below are four truths about a sacred relationship that will guide you to union we’re all seeking. These truths will point you back to who you really are… back to the essence of sacredness itself.

1. A sacred relationship is not what you think it is.

Sacredness …

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I’ve been putting my man through the wringer lately…

I’ve been putting my man through the wringer the last few months. No wait!! More accurately, we’ve been putting each other through the wringer. Lots of really awful, really intense emotions are making an appearance in our relationship. Fear! Blame! Misunderstanding. Dissonance. Hurt! Abandonment. Deception. Attack. Jealousy. Rage. Control. And even threads of hatred…

Holy shit. It’s a lot. It would be A LOT for anyone to handle.

And… He keeps showing up (which, honestly, is shocking the shit out of me… “Why are you still here?!?! You really want to go another round, dude?!?!”)

And I keep showing up…

We keep showing up.

How come?

Because we’re willing to be completely deconstructed in the name of Love.

We’re saying “yes – you can have me, Love,” and letting anything that isn’t Love be cleansed the fuck out of our systems. Even if it hurts like hell.

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4 Tantric Practices that Create Intimacy & Connection in Your Relationship

Tantra is the practice of being in a full-relationship with life.

An alive connection with what is.

Opening yourself – your senses, your awareness, your emotions – to the present moment and experiencing reality from that place of openness.

Tantra drops us deeper into the felt experience who we really are. It creates an active merging of body and spirit. When we practice tantra, life turns on.

And so do we.

Over the passed several months, I’ve been in a tantric relationship with a man who has taught me so many techniques to become even more awake and alive in our connection, in every moment.

Before I go any further, I’ll answer the question I know you’re wondering: “What exactly is a tantric relationship?”

To us, it’s an intimate relationship that’s grounded-in and guided-by Truth.

Meaning, it’s a partnership where our purpose (as a couple) is to be …

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5 Spiritual Quotes that Reveal the Truth About Finding Love

All great spiritual masters talk about love.

Often they’re not talking about a love that’s limited to a relationship between two people. They’re usually talking about a larger, more-pervasive type of love. A love that we’re each sourced from. A love that encompasses us all.

Yet even though these teachers aren’t speaking directly about romantic love, this all-encompassing love is still necessary to understand if you want to improve your relationships with others. Because it’s this love – the big love – that’s the foundation for connection, intimacy and ultimate fulfillment in every aspect of your life.

Below are quotes from five infinitely wise, love-devoted teachers. If we listen to their messages closely, we’ll discover the gems that guide us to create the love we truly desire.

1. “The power is in you. The answer is in you. You are the answer to all your searches: You are the goal.

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3 Practices that Attracted My Devoted Partner

As my connection deepens with my man, I can’t help but reflect on how far I’ve come in romantic love.

It wasn’t long ago that I experienced a ton of unease in relationships. I had a knack for attracting men who couldn’t show up for me, and I felt a deep longing to be seen, cherished and loved.

As painful as that time was, looking back now I would’t change a thing. Because being unfulfilled in relationships helped me get very clear about the type of love I wanted to create, and the discomfort gave me the drive to make it happen.

Today, I’m happy to report that find myself in a completely different situation…

Not only do I feel secure, poised and vibrant while deepening into a relationship with an amazing man, but I also chose someone who wants nothing more than to shower me with his love.

So …

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