Forget What You’ve Been Told About Manifesting, THIS is the One Thing You Need

The most important question you need to be asking yourself when manifesting anything (and arguably the ONLY question) is:

Who do I most want to be?

I want to talk to you today about the process I like to call claiming yourself. This is something I’ve talked about in many of my courses and YouTube videos since I believe it is one of the key elements of manifestation. It’s choosing to become the person you most want to be and claiming it.

I know many of you may feel overwhelmed and run down by all of the endless manifestation checklists, the piles of gratitude journals that are slowly repurposing themselves into coasters and affirmations that seem to give you nothing but second-hand embarrassment. Do you feel the walls closing in on you a bit?

Well I have some good news! You can be whoever you want and you don’t need fancy journals or checklists to tell you how to do that.

Here are some questions I created to help you start claiming yourself right now:

How do you want to be treated in relationships?

Do you want someone to laugh with on sunny afternoon car rides? Someone to nuzzle into on the couch after a long shift at work? Someone who gives you a reason to get out those dusty high heels at the back of your closet? 

What kind of relationship do you want with money and success?

Do you want your friends to be asking you things like “You make how much?!” Do you want to be choosing which car you drive today? Or perhaps, you feel like a holiday so you just, you know, have one?

What’s a typical day like for the new version of You?

Are you waking up with the sun? Starting the day off with an effortless smoothie made from scratch and a quick jog on the beach? Maybe you’re just admiring that marble kitchen island you’ve always wanted.

You can claim to be any person you want to be. We are infinite creatures. That means we have all the possibilities at our fingertips. It’s like going to your favorite clothing store and everything is in your size, go ahead, pick out whichever style you wish!

But take a leaf out of my book. One thing you’ve GOT to be is relentless. If you are able to have that inner conviction, that unstoppable confidence to claim yourself, then you will be an insanely powerful manifester. 

Manifesting is reflecting you back to yourself. 

“Your whole life is a manifestation of the thoughts that go on in your head.” - Rhonda Byrne

Claiming yourself is a practice, but it’s a practice of choosing yourself, of saying, I’m worth it.

It’s about having the confidence to say:

This is who I am and nothing is going to tell me otherwise.

So, I have one question for you:

If you could be anyone (and you can), who do you want to be?