Best of Manifesting : 14 October 2024
Manifest Marriage With Your Specific Person – It’s Easier Than You Think!
If you’re looking to manifest marriage with your specific person (SP), you’re in the right place! 🌟 In this guide, I’ll walk you through four essential steps to help you manifest the marriage of your dreams as quickly as possible. Read through to the end for a special free training on how to go from single to married in less than a year!
Let’s jump right in. ✨
💖 Step 1: Practice Advanced Self-Love Daily
The first crucial step if you want to manifest marriage with your specific person is to cultivate advanced self-love. Think of self-love on a spectrum—from basic affirmations like, “I am worthy of love,” to more advanced ones like, “I am a goddess,” or “I am magnetic and meant to be married.”
When manifesting both marriage and a specific person, you need to feel incredible about who you are. Daily affirmations such as:
- “I am beautiful and magnetic.”
- “I am meant to be married.”
- “I am an irresistible catch.”
will help you shift into an empowered self-concept, making you feel amazing and confident as you attract the relationship and marriage you desire.
👰🏻♀️🤵🏻 Step 2: Embody the Role of a Wife (or Husband!) Now
When you start to manifest marriage with your specific person, you have to pay attention to your self-concept. It’s everything! How you think about yourself and feel about your life will dictate what shows up in your reality. In this step, it’s time to become the version of yourself who is already married. 🥰
Here’s a powerful exercise:
- Take a piece of paper and create three columns: physical qualities, mental qualities, and emotional qualities.
- Under physical qualities, write down how you would look and feel about your body and confidence if you were already married.
- Under mental qualities, list the thoughts you would have as a married person. For example: “I love my spouse” or “We enjoy building a life together.”
- Under emotional qualities, describe how you would feel if you were already in this marriage: “I feel loved, settled, and confident.”
By doing this, you activate the self-concept of someone who is already in the relationship you desire. Practice this often, and watch how your reality begins to align with this new self-image.
🏡 Step 3: Envision Your Ideal Future Together
Another crucial step if you want to manifest marriage with your specific person is to ask: What kind of life do you want to build with them? It’s time to get clear on your ideal marriage.
Take out a journal and write down your vision for your life as a married couple. Whether it’s buying a house, traveling together, creating family traditions, or something else—dream big!
This process of scripting out your future together will make your marriage feel real, pulling it into your reality. The clearer you are about what you want, the easier it will be for the universe to align with your desires.
✍️ Step 4: Script the Best Version of Your Specific Person
To manifest the best possible relationship and eventually, manifest marriage with your specific person, you need to see the best in your SP. Focus on the qualities you love about them and the traits you want to see more of.
If you’re currently seeing your SP in a less favorable light—perhaps they haven’t been showing up in the way you’d like—this is a great opportunity to shift that perspective. Write down the qualities of the version of them that you adore:
- “They are loving and supportive.”
- “They show up for me consistently.”
- “They are committed to growing with me.”
The more you focus on this version of your SP, the more likely they will start showing up that way in your life. Your dominant perception of them will influence how they behave toward you and help you manifest marriage with your specific person!
🥳 Final Thoughts
By practicing these four steps consistently, you can shift your energy and start attracting the committed relationship and marriage you desire with your specific person. 💍
For those of you who are serious about manifesting marriage, I highly recommend my training: Single to Engaged to Married in Less Than a Year (it’s FREE!).
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Before you dive any deeper...
Hi, I’m Shelly!
I’m a relationship coach, licensed marriage & family therapist, wife, girl mom, world traveler and… a damn good manifesting teacher.
On any random Saturday, you could find me hiking in the Redwoods with my family during the day AND relaxing to all songs on 🎶the foggy jazz🎶 station on Spotify in the evening with my man…
I’ve helped 125,000+ expansive, beautiful humans manifest their desires through my YouTube channel.
Over the last decade, I transformed my love life… I went from feeling terrified that I may never find love or have a family of my own to manifesting marriage, my baby, our dream home, and so much more. Now, I want to help you do the same.
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