Best of Manifesting : 01 October 2024
Here’s How I Manifested Love on Valentine’s Day (And It’s a True Story!)
In this blog, I’ll share a personal story of how I manifested love one Valentine’s Day simply by embracing my own worth and beauty. If you’ve ever wondered how self-love can lead to manifesting romantic love, this one’s for you! Let’s dive in!
🥰 The Power of Self-Love
After a tough breakup nearly a decade ago, I found myself in a low place emotionally. I had just ended a long-term relationship, and although I knew the breakup was for the best, it still hurt. 😢 To heal, I instinctively turned to self-love. I began to focus on rebuilding my sense of self-worth, telling myself how beautiful, special, and amazing I was. Little did I know, this would become the key to attracting new love into my life.
🙌 How I Manifested Love
I wasn’t actively trying to manifest a new relationship — I was simply working on myself. Every day, I affirmed: I am beautiful. I am special. I am desirable. These affirmations weren’t about arrogance; they were about recognizing my own worth. I truly believed and felt that I was an incredible person. 👑
Then came Valentine’s Day, and my friend invited me to a party. I felt great about myself, wearing a red lace dress, fully embodying the energy of a confident, radiant woman. While mingling at the party, a man across the room caught my eye. Without hesitation, he walked straight toward me and said, “Who are you? You are gorgeous!” It was a moment where I realized the power of my inner work — he saw me exactly as I saw myself.
💕 The Connection Between Self-Perception and Love
We started dating shortly after, and what struck me most was how this man treated me. He honored me, respected me, and saw me as this goddess-like figure — precisely how I had been viewing myself when I manifested love. It was a profound realization: when you love and value yourself, others will see you the same way. 💫
Though the relationship was brief due to life changes, it was a clear demonstration of how self-love lays the foundation for manifesting the love you desire. I wasn’t looking for love; I was simply building myself up. But by doing so, I attracted someone who saw me in the same light I had cultivated within.
😍 Why Self-Love is the Foundation for Manifesting Love
This story inspired the creation of my Manifest Your Love course, and it’s why every single one of my courses includes a self-love component. Whether you’re manifesting love, money, or success, self-love is the foundation that can’t be skipped.
💖🙋🏻♀️ REMEMBER: By embracing your own beauty and worth, you invite others to do the same.
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Before you dive any deeper...
Hi, I’m Shelly!
I’m a relationship coach, licensed marriage & family therapist, wife, girl mom, world traveler and… a damn good manifesting teacher.
On any random Saturday, you could find me hiking in the Redwoods with my family during the day AND relaxing to all songs on 🎶the foggy jazz🎶 station on Spotify in the evening with my man…
I’ve helped 125,000+ expansive, beautiful humans manifest their desires through my YouTube channel.
Over the last decade, I transformed my love life… I went from feeling terrified that I may never find love or have a family of my own to manifesting marriage, my baby, our dream home, and so much more. Now, I want to help you do the same.
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